How to Find Your Chosen Family: Building LGBTQ+ Community as an Adult

Oct 8

For many of us in the LGBTQ+ community, chosen family is essential. As adults, finding meaningful connections can feel challenging, but it’s far from impossible. Whether you're starting fresh in a new city or just looking to expand your social circle, here are some tips on building that all-important chosen family.

1. Join Local LGBTQ+ Groups and Meetups

Finding local LGBTQ+ groups can be a great way to meet like-minded people. Whether it's through social media platforms like Facebook or apps like Meetup, joining LGBTQ+ groups for events, social outings, or even hobby-based meetups is a great first step. Look for queer women’s groups, book clubs, or local LGBTQ+ sports teams to meet people with shared interests.

2. Pursue Hobbies and Passions with LGBTQ+ Communities

Sometimes the best way to connect with others is through shared activities. Find LGBTQ+-friendly spaces to pursue your passions — whether it’s cooking, crafting, dancing, or even volunteering. These shared interests will naturally foster connections, making it easier to meet people who could become part of your chosen family.

A group of women smiling and painting together in a bright, cozy studio, fostering connections through a shared creative activity. The scene reflects the power of hobbies in building friendships and chosen family within the LGBTQ+ community.

3. Create or Attend Queer Social Events

Hosting or attending LGBTQ+-centered social events is a powerful way to build a sense of belonging. Whether it’s a cozy movie night, a Pride gathering, or a brunch meetup, social events are essential for growing your chosen family. Look out for local LGBTQ+ community centers that host regular social events for queer women.

4. Support Each Other Emotionally

Chosen family is all about emotional support. Take the time to show up for the people in your life, whether it’s a phone call to check in, helping someone move, or being there during tough times. Offering and receiving emotional support strengthens the bonds within your chosen family, creating a circle of trust and care.

Two LGBTQ+ women providing emotional support, strengthening chosen family bonds.

5. Travel Together: Foster Deeper Connections

One of the most transformative ways to build deep friendships and expand your chosen family is through travel. Traveling with other queer women offers shared experiences, bonding, and adventure. Group trips allow you to connect with like-minded people, creating memories that deepen friendships. Our LGBTQ+ women’s group trips offer an inclusive and welcoming space to explore new places while fostering lifelong connections.

Ready to Expand Your Chosen Family Through Adventure?

Why not take the next step in building your LGBTQ+ community while exploring the world? Our group trips offer the perfect opportunity to form deep connections with other queer women while traveling to stunning destinations. From shared experiences to lifelong friendships, these adventures will help you grow your chosen family in an inclusive and supportive environment.

Contact us today to book your spot on our next LGBTQ+ women’s group trip, and start creating unforgettable memories with your new chosen family!