How to Keep the Spark Alive: Planning a Surprise Getaway for Your Partner
Want to surprise your partner with an unforgettable getaway? Whether you’re celebrating love, an anniversary, or just spicing things up, a surprise LGBTQ+ friendly trip is the ultimate romantic gesture! From choosing the perfect destination to planning thoughtful activities, here’s your guide to creating a trip they’ll never forget.
Planning a surprise getaway for your partner is one of the most romantic ways to show love and appreciation. Whether you're celebrating an anniversary, rekindling the spark, or just wanting to create unforgettable memories together, a surprise trip adds excitement and spontaneity to your relationship.
From choosing the perfect destination to keeping the surprise under wraps, here’s how to plan a thoughtful, LGBTQ+ friendly getaway that will sweep your partner off their feet.
1. Pick the Perfect Destination
Choosing a destination that reflects your partner’s personality and interests is key to making the trip feel extra special.
Ideas Based on Your Partner’s Travel Style:
The Adventurer – Take them on a thrilling nature escape like hiking in Patagonia, surfing in Bali, or zip-lining in Costa Rica.
The Relaxation Seeker – Book a stay at a luxury LGBTQ+ friendly spa resort, such as The Scarlet in Cornwall or a hot springs retreat in Iceland.
The City Explorer – Surprise them with a vibrant city escape, like shopping and sightseeing in Paris or exploring the queer scene in Toronto’s Church-Wellesley Village.
The Beach Lover – Plan a sun-soaked getaway to an LGBTQ+ friendly island like Puerto Vallarta, Mykonos, or the Maldives.
Pro Tip: If you want to keep it local, plan a staycation at a boutique hotel or a cozy cabin just a short drive away.
2. Keep It a Secret (Without Raising Suspicion!)
The biggest challenge in planning a surprise trip is keeping it a true surprise. Here’s how to pull it off:
Create a Fake Event: Tell your partner you have a “work event” or that you’re planning a weekend with friends, so they don’t get suspicious.
Sneakily Gather Travel Preferences: Casually ask about destinations they’ve always wanted to visit or activities they enjoy without making it obvious.
Secretly Pack Their Essentials: If you live together, set aside their must-haves like travel-sized toiletries, comfortable shoes, and outfits you know they love.
Coordinate with Their Schedule: If they have work commitments, talk to their boss or friends in advance to ensure they’re free for the trip.
Pro Tip: Give small hints leading up to the trip, like playing music from the destination or cooking a meal inspired by where you’re going.
3. Plan Romantic & Thoughtful Activities
A surprise getaway isn’t just about the destination—it’s about the moments you create together.
Romantic Surprise Ideas:
Private Wine Tasting – Book a private LGBTQ+ friendly vineyard tour in Napa Valley or Tuscany.
Sunset Boat Ride – Arrange a private sailboat cruise, whether it’s along the Amalfi Coast or through a scenic city like Amsterdam.
Cozy Cabin Getaway – Rent a secluded LGBTQ+-friendly Airbnb with a fireplace and a hot tub for the ultimate romantic retreat.
Surprise Date Night – Buy tickets for a drag show, queer film screening, or live concert in the city you’re visiting.
Personalized Experience – Arrange for a photo shoot, love letter scavenger hunt, or custom picnic at a scenic location.
Pro Tip: If your partner loves surprises, add a mystery element—give them small clues about each activity as the day unfolds!
4. Capture the Memories
Since this is a once-in-a-lifetime kind of experience, document it!
Hire a Local Photographer: Book a vacation photo shoot for high-quality memories.
Create a Surprise Travel Scrapbook: Collect keepsakes like plane tickets, postcards, and photos to make a travel memory book afterward.
Make a Travel Video: Capture little moments throughout the trip and edit them into a video as a gift for your partner later on.
5. Book LGBTQ+ Friendly Accommodations & Experiences
For a stress-free and affirming trip, choose places that celebrate LGBTQ+ travelers.
LGBTQ+ Friendly Hotels & Resorts:
Axel Hotels (Worldwide) – Stylish, queer-friendly hotels in major cities.
Casa Cupula (Puerto Vallarta, Mexico) – A boutique hotel known for its LGBTQ+ inclusivity.
Olivia Travel Resorts – Curated luxury retreats for queer women.
LGBTQ+ Tour Companies:
Out Adventures – Queer-friendly travel experiences tailored to couples.
Ladies Touch Travel – LGBTQ+ women’s group trips and custom itineraries.
Pink Coconuts – Caribbean-based queer travel experiences.
Pro Tip: Make the trip even more special by requesting a room with a view, honeymoon suite perks, or arranging a special welcome gift (champagne, flowers, etc.).
6. The Big Reveal: How to Surprise Them!
Now, for the fun part—revealing the trip!
Creative Ways to Announce the Surprise:
Love Letter Reveal – Write a romantic note detailing the surprise and give it to them before departure.
Gift Box Clues – Pack small items that hint at the destination (a bikini for a beach trip, hiking boots for a nature escape).
Customized Map – Print a map and mark the destination with a cute message like, “Pack your bags—we’re going here!”
Blindfolded Reveal – Lead them to the airport or train station without telling them where they’re going until the last moment!
Pro Tip: If your partner loves spontaneity, reveal the destination as you board the flight or check in at the hotel!
Final Thoughts: Love + Travel = The Ultimate Surprise
A surprise getaway is a thoughtful, exciting way to keep the spark alive and create unforgettable memories with your partner. With the right planning, a touch of mystery, and LGBTQ+ inclusive destinations, you’ll craft an experience that deepens your connection and brings you closer together.
Ready to Plan the Ultimate Surprise Trip?
Join Ladies Touch Travel’s LGBTQ+ Women’s Group Trips for romantic and inclusive getaways or let us help you design the perfect custom surprise trip for your partner! Book now and start planning the adventure of a lifetime!